I apologize if anyone was mislead. The second portion of the previous post was not something that happened in my life. It was an email I received a couple years ago and I reposted it because even if isn't true to my knowledge or those that are immediate friends, it might be true for someone else. Again, the "I" in that portion of the post was not me. I guess my paragraph prior to it wasn't clear enough. Sorry for any confusion. I just wanted to make a point that we never know who's life we might so greatly affect with a small gesture.